Having an orgasm is physically not as easy for a woman as it is for a man. The body of a woman is not designed to orgasm as quickly as that of a man and it’s this fact that many people are unaware of. Part of the problem to is that books and films tend to give the impression that woman climax quite readily during sex and so naturally if a girl doesn’t reach an orgasm she may feel self conscious and even abnormal.
Well the fact is that it is quite normal for a woman to be unable to climax every time they have sex but of course on occasions if they are aroused enough then a climax can be reached. Interestingly enough though, in the past doctors believed that many women, most of the population of women, were in fact unable to reach an orgasm at all. Thankfully, times have changed and there has been much more research into sexual medicine, plus the more open and permissive society that we now live in has changed many peoples perception of this. As it isn’t necessary for a woman to climax in order to get pregnant then it also meant that it wasn’t viewed as being too important.
There is now evidence that any woman can in fact have an orgasm given the right circumstances and also the correct ways to make her feel properly aroused, but this can be quite personal and every one is different.
Many younger women in their late teens can find it stressful if they aren’t able to reach a climax particularly if their partner or friends are climaxing. What is clear now is that there is sometimes a learning process first and it has been suggested that a girl may be well into her sexual life until she manages her first orgasm. Surveys have also suggested that it may not be during sexual intercourse at all and is generally through masturbation. The age at which a girl has her first orgasm does vary, but it is thought to be on average around 18, but there are also women who actually are in their early 40’s before they have that elusive first orgasm.
Most sex therapists these days suggest that if a woman is unable to reach a climax during sexual intercourse then the best way to over come this is to learn what gives her pleasure through masturbation and then take this into having sex with a partner. It can be quite uncomfortable to tell her partner what to do but once the embarrassment has passed then at least her partner will have an idea as to what to do in future.
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